5 normal sparks in marriages!

I noticed that my wife had been reading the same page in a book for about forty-five minutes! I could see from where I was sitting opposite her that she was looking over the book, just staring into space!

Having been married for fifteen years, I could tell she wasn’t quite herself.

“Is anything wrong?” I enquired.

Silence.

“Honey, you haven’t turned the page of that book for forty-five minutes,”

Silence

“Okay, maybe it’s not something you want to talk about.” Read more

Eagles don’t fly with Vultures!

The two friends stood outside the Italian style building, the tension between them visible, even in the dark.

‘Look, you’re carrying this Christian thing too far. It’s a harmless party. I tell you there is nothing to worry about, Lizzy could barely conceal her anger.

‘I don’t think you can call this party a harmless one’, Funke responded quietly

‘Well, what’s wrong with the party?’ Lizzy’s patience was wearing thin.

‘What’s wrong with the party? There’s a pornographic movie playing on the wall, people are doing all kinds of crazy stuff all over the place and you ask me what’s wrong with the party?’ Read more

10 Top Reasons why wives cheat!

Why do wives cheat? There are lots of reasons but contrary to what many believe, sex is not the top reason why wives cheat. More often than not, wives begin with emotional affairs which could turn sexual!

Here is a look at ten top reasons why wives cheat. Read more

Wait, even if it takes forever!

It was about 7pm and the sun had gone down earlier than usual.  It was summer, but already dark but my thoughts were darker than the night!

Sitting by me on the white sandy beach of the Atlantic Ocean was Ruth, one of my most favourite people in the world. We were both quiet as we stared ahead into the sea of nothingness before us.  The lights of some Boats flashed in the distance as stars danced over the waters of the Atlantic. Read more

What are you saying?

Do you know that the Bible says you will have what you say? You may find this difficult to believe but the Bible actually shows that we create our world by the words we speak.

Let me show you an  example. God delivered the Jews from Egypt and sent off to Canaan, the Promised Land under the leadership of Moses. The Jews got to the boundary of Canaan and sent twelve spies to go spy out the land. Two of the spies gave a positive report about the land and urged the people to go in and take the land, afterall God had told them the land was theirs. Read more

‘What am I to do now?’

I looked at the confused mother holding the door of my car, preventing me (not deliberately) from getting into the car. You had to pity her. Here was a widow who had single handedly raised her only daughter whose father had died when she was just three years old. That was some seventeen years back!

Standing a few feet behind us was Rosanne, her daughter with tears streaming down her face. She had come to me, a few days back, to ask for my help. She was in her final year of College and she had gotten pregnant! No big deal, you might say but Rosanne was a committed Christian and committed Christians are not supposed to get pregnant out of wedlock. Read more

Let’s send ‘em all to mars!!

I could see from my table that the sad looking fellow seated opposite me at the Hotel Bar was on his fifth drink! I had no intention of monitoring him but by the time the waiter approached him thrice in twenty minutes, I sort of took an interest.

He was a tall fellow, bespectacled and perhaps a college Professor. He had on black trousers, a pink shirt and a brown jacket. His tie was loose around his neck and his hair needed some attention. Read more

What’s on your mind? (II)

(You may want to read part 1 before reading this)

Research has shown that women are not as crazy about looks as men are, when it comes to dating and getting married! Surprised?

Have you noticed that rich men seem to get hooked up with beautiful ladies?  It doesn’t matter that they look like a Gorilla’s cousin does it? Read more

What’s on your mind? (I)

If you know how powerful your thoughts are, you will never think a negative thought ever again!  The Bible says “as he thinketh in his heart, so is he!”

I have discovered that despite their desire to get connected, many single men and women remain lonely because of the negative thoughts that dominate their minds. Read more

Teach me about sex! Are you kidding?

I sat at the back of the hall with an amused smile on my face. From the corner of my eye I could see my wife sitting beside me with her eyes focused on the man on the raised platform before us. My attempts to carry on a conversation with her earlier on were politely rebuffed!

“I really want to listen to this guy if you don’t mind,” She retorted. “If I were you, I’d listen too. I’m sure you’ll learn something!” Read more